Give Peace a Chance
The old >60s phrase Agive peace a chance@ may sound Amushy@ and Afeel good@ to some, but it appears to be one of the easiest methods known to reduce violence in the world. A variation of this theme has been echoed by the Dalai Lama, who has been touring the country again. He was in Los Angeles recently talking with troubled youths, among other groups. Winner of a Nobel Peace Prize, he is perhaps the ultimate in Buddhist compassion and love. He lives in exile, traveling around the world trying to bring peace to his Tibetan land in their support for independence from five decades of Chinese rule. Seems the Chinese do not like peaceful men. Not that the United States loves peace, either. Ever heard of a Department of Peace? We use to have a War Department, which is now called, ironically, the Department of Defense (the irony is that this department more often engages in war, both directly and indirectly).
So why am I writing about the Dalai Lama? Because if we took seriously at his message (and the message of over 2000 years of Zen Buddhism and other religious teachings) we could easily end the violence both here and abroad, between men and women, between men and men, between gangs, and between rival nations. In attendance at one of the Dalai Lama=s talks were 22 youths from two Los Angeles County probation camps and around 50 more from an organization called We Care for Youth. In a rare moment a troubled teenage girl asked His Holiness the following question: AHow can I stay out of trouble in this cruel world?@ He gave her a hug and uttered words that she says she’ll never forget: AYou don=t need fists to fight. You just need wisdom.@ A story in the Los Angeles Times quoted the girl as saying that AHe told me to find self-confidence in my heart and myself. I had tears in my eyes. My heart was beating, like, wild. He just touches you in your heart.@ Later he told the audience AYou are your own light. Look into your own self.@
The Dalai Lama points us in a direction that we need to go in order to end the violence that is all around us. We read about it every day in local newspapers, see it on the nightly news, watch countless movies with violence as the main theme, support with our taxes a constantly growing war machine (both nationally in terms of the armed forces and locally in terms of the police). And how often do we applaud the victors as they wipe out the Aenemy@? How often do we seek vengeance against someone who has killed another, never thinking of the utter hypocrisy of claiming to be against violence, yet eagerly awaiting the next execution of a condemned man. And we vote for candidates who espouse a Alaw and order@ rhetoric and support Aour troops@ in their foreign conquests (and domestic conquests too, as in the Awar on drugs,@ Awar on gangs,@ etc.). And we often secretly wish to commit violence ourselves, both against our perceived enemies (the boss at work, a co-worker, someone who has Adissed@ us) and our own loved ones - our spouses, our children, our parents. And who are we to condemn violence here (as in recent school-yard shootings), when we support violence our military commits against foreign nations? I recall the hypocrisy of President Clinton in the aftermath of the shootings at Columbine last year. He told the youths of the nation not to solve their problems with violence. The very next day he ordered the bombing of Yugoslavia.
And we wonder why we have the highest rate of violence among all democratic societies, a rate that compares only with totalitarian dictatorships? I am convinced that some very fundamental changes need to be made in the way we live and think before we see any significant decrease in these problems.
I believe it is time that to consider the possibility that we are just as much part of the problem; perhaps more so. In short, if anyone wants to know where the answers lie and where to begin to look for solutions, I think it prudent that all of us begin by simply looking in the mirror. We should begin by asking ourselves: Is there something wrong with my attitudes, my beliefs, my actions that may contribute to the problem? If we want some answers, begin by searching within ourselves. This is the message from many who espouse some of the philosophies of the East, like the Dalai Lama. This message is this: before we can achieve peace on earth, which includes a world without violence, we have to develop peace within ourselves. We need to Agive peace a chance.@
A young man attending the Dalai Lama=s lecture put it well when he related that he was raised in a very violent world, witnessing his uncle=s murder when he was only 8 years old. Little wonder he grew up acting out the aggression that he witnessed, no doubt never having been presented with alternatives.
But we do have alternatives. One alternative is to be found in one indisputable fact about violence: it=s a male thing, rooted in the way males are socialized in this and other societies. The result: over 95% of all violence is committed by males. Perhaps we need to consider helping males to develop their natural feminine side (yes we males all have it), so they won=t have to constantly prove their so-called Amanhood@ all the time.
We also begin with ourselves. We look inward, where peace is everywhere. We follow the suggestion of the title of the book by Vietnamese Monk and author Thich Nhat Hanh, Peace is Every Step. The message is nothing new. We just haven=t been listening.
Las Vegas City Life, 8/3/2000.
For further reading: Several criminologists have written about crime from a Apeace and social justice@ perspective. See Richard Quinney and John Wildeman, The Problem of Crime: A Peace and Social Justice Perspective.(3rd ed.) Mountain View, CA: Mayfield. Hahn=s book is: Peace is Every Step. New York: Bantam Books, 1991.